This really has nothing to do with this post except that this is kind of how I feel
right now. My youngest and I were messing around on her
Glowstation the other night- those things are pretty cool!
So, I guess tonight I'll spend some time sending emails and seeing if I can't get some answers. Anyone out there ever been through a foster adoption (I know you have, Jen!)? Any tips?! I know they are much different than an international and even different than a domestic infant adoption. I thought I was pretty prepared for the international but none of that matters right now. I am clueless and just want to get started already!
Also, have any of you ever used Bethany Christian for a homestudy? I'm sure there are other agencies in our area, but I SURE CAN'T FIND THEM!!
I really just need to pray and go to bed. Tomorrow I'm sure I'll feel better.
In Him,
E
I am so frustrated with this! I literally called between 12-15 different numbers today trying to get some questions answered about beginning our adoption! Guess what? Out of all those calls, I spoke with ONE live person and she sent me to someone else WHO WAS OUT OF THE OFFICE! I got her voicemail, too. I did leave many messages but some of the numbers I was given were out of order. Deep breath... Not only that, but the clock seemed to be moving at hyper speed because 5:00 came like a flash- then, of course, everything was closed.
So, I guess tonight I'll spend some time sending emails and seeing if I can't get some answers. Anyone out there ever been through a foster adoption (I know you have, Jen!)? Any tips?! I know they are much different than an international and even different than a domestic infant adoption. I thought I was pretty prepared for the international but none of that matters right now. I am clueless and just want to get started already!
Also, have any of you ever used Bethany Christian for a homestudy? I'm sure there are other agencies in our area, but I SURE CAN'T FIND THEM!!
I really just need to pray and go to bed. Tomorrow I'm sure I'll feel better.
In Him,
E
5 comments:
Oh friend--TRY to take one step at a time. Welcome to the crazy world of adoption--where things rarely go the way you want them to :)
The GOOD news tonight is that God has the perfect children already picked out for you--since before the foundation of the earth. He WILL bring them to you, He will lead and guide you. I promise!
I know, it is frustrating. Hang in there.
We haven't adopted from foster care, but not due to lack of trying. We are foster parents though and have inquired on various kids. It can be frustrating but just keep pushing, letting them know you are persistent. There's just so much red tape and bureaucracy to go through on all sides.
I'm praying for someone helpful to come forward in this for you :)
Adoption is all about being on your knees. Pray, Pray, and then... pray some more. No matter which route you take in adoption, there is always red tape and a different route to follow. Let God lead the way, and you will be great!!
My good friend works for BCS. I'm sure they are awesome but I would guess a big on the pricey side. Your homestudy will be FREE through the state unless you go international then it will cost. I just can't believe its taking so long to get answers. Have you called the local Department of human Services?
What state are you guys in? I know several families that have used Bethany and they have LOVED them! They are a great agency!!
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